Meleeman
my how my perspective has changed. at one point i was saying this "Yes guys there are actually girls who will throw themselves on you even if you are fat and fit into a size b-cup. These are the ones you stay away from. The relationship will not last and you will lose more than your virginity. Terah in this case is not in her right mind and she is quite naive and impressionable."
while this is still somewhat true, the fact was that I in my limited experience didn't realize to what degree how strange and imperfect i was, and putting my trust in people who did not have my same mindset or approach to relationships.